I have video taped about a hundred weddings. It’s a hard day’s work and often pretty unpleasant but at times it’s very gratifying. Judi helped with most of them and whenever she is there the work is easier. Rebecca’s and Robert’s wedding was at the most exclusive country club in Wilmington. Their reserved behavior throughout the ceremony and the reception was dignified and appropriate for the occasion, and the location, but there was more behind their treatment of each other than manners.